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um... pass?
My puppy is a shameful ******* (and pisser, too). He goes all walk without going, then I get in the house and turn my back for 30 seconds, and he's squirting out a nice pile. He gets good food, goes out at roughly the same times everyday, and can hold it all night in the bed. I had this same problem with my first Lab, but don't remember how I dealt with it.
Suggestions?
Some very hard decisions to make there Dex but ultimately it sounds like you are following the best course of action for you and your family (and your house...LOL). It's hard to make a decision where it is best to just cut your losses. But what are the alternatives? To me it sounds like you've already tried pursing the alternatives and this is the next best (albeit difficult) thing. I'm sure we could go back and forth on what training methods to try but I'm sure you've exhausted those measures. Your kids are young right now and should be pretty resilient. Sure they may be upset for a few days, but kids do pretty well at redirecting their attention after a certain period of time. Good luck in the coming days. You guys will pull through fine.So I feel like a piece of $hit parent. Mrs Dex and I decided that we really can't handle 2 cats and 2 dogs, so one of each will be heading back to the shelter. The cat that is going away is the same one who stopped using the litterbox. I got her to start using it again for a while, but she has regressed. Honestly with her, I don't want to play the "where is the cat piss smell coming from" game anymore. I already feel like I have to replace the carpet in the entire house because of it, I don't want to wait any longer for things to get worse.
Now the part that makes me feel bad: we're giving up Zeus, the puppy we adopted about 6 months ago. He absolutely destroys everything around him. I understand he is still a puppy, but we don't have the time to dedicate to training him. Because of this, he spends about 22 hours per day in his crate (which he is also destroying). We can't leave him in the back yard for more than 30 minutes before he gets bored and starts destroying something. So far he has dug up a tree, eaten Mrs Dex's rose bushes, shredded all of the kids toys, and has left the yard looking like it's the 50yd line of Lambeau field in January. If he is in the House we can't leave him unsupervised AT ALL without him peeing, getting onto the kitchen counters, or tracking down another kiddo toy to shred. Despite all of this, the kids absolutely love him. I feel like $hit for getting rid of a dog and a cat, but honestly I can't afford to keep them.
FML.
Tex, I know this pain very well. Back in November, just a few weeks before the PE exam mind you, we had to put down our retriever mix due to a large mass located in his abdomen area. It was preventing him from going to the bathroom so he would either squat endlessly like he was constipated, or just stop eating. He was 12 YO and we adopted him back in 2007. He suffered for about 2 weeks before we were made aware of it and had to make the "decision". It is one that I still have nightmares about. I was in the room with him when they put him to sleep. I have NEVER cried so hard in my life. I am very sorry for your loss.Not such a good day in the Tex household yesterday either...we lost our lab to liver cancer. We are grateful, though, that she was only sick for a day and a half. Saturday morning she was fetching her stick and ball.
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