oh good lord!
1. i believe i mentioned this before but ill say it again. me and my husband live comfortably off of HIS income. with our current car payments, mortgage, etc.
2. we also have enough in the bank to pay off both our cars, and a new $35k car if we choose, PLUS half our mortgage if we choose. we choose not to.
3. its actually none of anyones business and as mentioned before, i didnt ask your opinion on how much of a car i could afford. someone asked what price range and i replied. i did not offer that information up in the front, but brought into the conversation the rough class that we were looking at.
4. considering how much money we have in the bank and how much we save each month considering i have no job, i really dont see how anyone else presumes to tell me to spend or save my money, as i think we're doing a pretty good job on our own. if youre doing better congratulations. if youre doing worse, then youre probably spending too much. we're obviously not, thanks for your opinion anyway.
im not coming back to this thread, and im very sorry i started it.