I got lucky. Maybe we both did. I was shy and my nose was always in the books. Didn't really date much in college. All of a sudden after college, with a job and free time dating was super easy, then got laid off and dating was super hard hmmm...between jobs worked as a waiter and met my future wife. I was unemployed, no money and she just wanted to spend time with me. Never asked what I did for a living, if I went to college, what my religion was, what my parents were like. Just liked me for me.She sounds very lucky to have you as a partner
I gave her a good life, but she grew up on food stamps so she taught me humility and how to stretch a dollar, which is something I needed at the time.