you would think they would give you all some time. You have only been married 2 years? I think anyone, whether they want kids or not, needs to go through a couple of years together before worrying about it to be honest. Our goal was to finish college and then have 2 years of full time income behind us before we "thought" about having them.
They are a lot of work and even though I wanted kids, they are still a PIA and a lot of work, so I would say for people that don't want them definitely don't have them. But I am on the home stretch..
We went skiing with some of my wifes work friends this past season who are mid 20's- My older son and daughter were with us (16 & 14) after skiing all day were having some bloody mary's and the "girls" are all saying how much fun they had skiing with our kids, and it changed their mindset on having kids themselves. I had to stop them and remind them that you don't spit them out at 14, we've got a good decade in them to make them the way they are!