cdcengineer
Sharp as a piece of beach glass
Wil - parents can't force kids to do homework. They force that the TV is off or video games, etc.. But what parents can do is to try and instill the competitive drive and desire to succeed. I speak from my experience only, and maybe some of you can back me up, I had the desire to get good grades. School came easy to me, and that's probably partially due to the fact that I attended a flunky high school. But I enjoyed and derived satisfaction from being viewed as a flunky yet blowing test scores out of the water. It's like I had something to prove to everyone. I wanted to out perform at my job which was school.
Now-a-days all the kids are winners just for showing up - at least that's what I hear about on the news (my son is too young yet to participate so I have no direct experience). How about we teach American kids that winning is important and fun and that competition is good and promotes advancement of all kinds. There has to losers to have winners. And somebody's kids have to dig ditches and / or wash dishes. It's OK to be second or last, but being 1st provides opportunity for success. The easiest way to succeed is to try. Or they can always sit back and with a ton of luck, hope to be pro - athletes, musicians, whatevers - (insert pipe dream here).
Now-a-days all the kids are winners just for showing up - at least that's what I hear about on the news (my son is too young yet to participate so I have no direct experience). How about we teach American kids that winning is important and fun and that competition is good and promotes advancement of all kinds. There has to losers to have winners. And somebody's kids have to dig ditches and / or wash dishes. It's OK to be second or last, but being 1st provides opportunity for success. The easiest way to succeed is to try. Or they can always sit back and with a ton of luck, hope to be pro - athletes, musicians, whatevers - (insert pipe dream here).