This sounds mean but I really wish I could just do this solo - When we bike together its like I am taking a kid along, have to make sure someone other than myself is okay, can you hold my bike while I adjust my helmet, and being a female if the temperature changes 1 degree there is a stop and a wardrobe change happening... she was ahead of me at tour the moon on the uphill, but she doesn't like to go fast on the only fun part of the ride, that downhill exiting the park, I left her and enjoyed myself and could tell she was irked, I mean shit if I am going to ride 3000 feet of uphill I am going to take the quick way down!
But I think once you have seen someone "survive" a bike hit by an 18 wheeler I don't know if you cant unsee it - and by survive I mean a quadriplegic, including a brain injury that the doctors should have not given the family false hope and just let the guy go.. so that's her hesitation on BRAN - I think she even saw a pic you posted on FB along the shoulder of the road and a semi coming up behind you?