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I was just going to ask, what happens if you don't follow "the list"? :dunno:
IDK, probably nothing other than minisnick asking why his supplies are different...kids are so fickle.  but you never know with teachers how close they are to their boilingpoint.  They like what they like.  I saved minisnicks list from last fall since it had 1st grade on their too. so I can keep an eye out for super sales and then just add when the specfic teacher list is available. 

 
towards the end of our elementary school days we just sent in what we wanted and then added something if it was really needed...eventually your give a fuck breaks down with all the BS in elementary school..

 
Last night there was a giant bin for kleenex, so I dropped them in. I then started looking for where the bins for the other supplies were located and, get this, THEY PUT THEIR OWN SUPPLIES IN THEIR OWN DESKS

I nearly passed out.

In their desks, they also had a planner. I near passed out from excitement.
To follow up- my kid came home with some markers and crayons that had been his all year. Keep in mind we had a really short list to bring in- pencils, erasers, markers, crayons, glue sticks, kleenex. No bullshit ziplocs or post it notes. 

We never had to bring in snack. 

Our school is a split school, where K-3 is in one building and 4-6 is in another. They really amp up the responsibility once they get to the 4-6 building and that was fantastic! This year was super. 

 
To follow up- my kid came home with some markers and crayons that had been his all year. Keep in mind we had a really short list to bring in- pencils, erasers, markers, crayons, glue sticks, kleenex. No bullshit ziplocs or post it notes. 

We never had to bring in snack. 

Our school is a split school, where K-3 is in one building and 4-6 is in another. They really amp up the responsibility once they get to the 4-6 building and that was fantastic! This year was super. 
I hope our district is like this with increased responsibility. We have five campuses: K, 1-3, 4-6, 7-8, 9-12. I "hope" but really don't know. I was talking to another parent, who has a middle schooler and high schooler. I mentioned that we constantly push our 9 year old autistic kid to be independent. Dress herself, brush her teeth, bathe herself, get her own food when she is hungry, etc. This mom replied that her kids aren't that independent yet, and insinuated I may be pushing too hard.

On supplies, I am buying that crap early!!! I have the lists and am not waiting until school starts. I hate dealing with that craziness! I don't think the "tax savings" weekend we have here right before school starts is worth the hassle of crowds.

 
Depends what you mean by "on his own".  If you mean you and Mr. Snick just leave him alone at the house and go to work each day, I'd raise an eyebrow and question whether that's a wise choice.  Just my 0.02.

 
think it does depend on the kid, I think legally in most states its 12? but in Wyoming I think DUI's just became illegal a few years ago..

ours have been staying home for a while, and even though they are older I think I worry about them more now than I did when they were younger to be honest

 
think it does depend on the kid, I think legally in most states its 12? but in Wyoming I think DUI's just became illegal a few years ago..

ours have been staying home for a while, and even though they are older I think I worry about them more now than I did when they were younger to be honest
in Illinois it is 14.

 
14 is a stretch to old in my opinion, there must be some type of mandatory government funded summer camp they're forcing people to use

 
https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubpdfs/homealone.pdf

According to this very official federal document from 2013, three states have laws and the ages are 14,10,and 8 for those states.

If my kid was at a day camp, he wouldn't be home stacking firewood. It's a win for the house. 

Also, he can make food for himself, can call any number of people in an emergency (including 911), and completes his daily chore list. He likes it because he gets to go fishing and has time to be alone. 

Of course, if there was concern, we could call Snick's husband to hang with him. 

 
think it does depend on the kid, I think legally in most states its 12? but in Wyoming I think DUI's just became illegal a few years ago..

ours have been staying home for a while, and even though they are older I think I worry about them more now than I did when they were younger to be honest
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me too!!!
LOL.  Me 2

https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubpdfs/homealone.pdf

According to this very official federal document from 2013, three states have laws and the ages are 14,10,and 8 for those states.

If my kid was at a day camp, he wouldn't be home stacking firewood. It's a win for the house. 

Also, he can make food for himself, can call any number of people in an emergency (including 911), and completes his daily chore list. He likes it because he gets to go fishing and has time to be alone. 

Of course, if there was concern, we could call Snick's husband to hang with him. 
different strokes for different folks. 

FWIW, there's no way Mrs MA would have even considered leaving the kids alone and unsupervised when they were in grade school.

RG: had a point about tehm being alone when they're older...when my son was in high school he had friends over playing pool and drinking my beer while I was at work.  I discoverd it when I came home early one day.

 
That's because you didn't leave them alone at 10! ;)

In first grade I was expected to get home alone. By second grade I was expected to let myself in the house and behave until my mother got home from work two hours later. I barely remember a time when I wasn't a latchkey kid. I would be signed up for a camp here and there, but I mostly stayed home and had chores to do and then could do whatever during the summer. 

Our kid has enjoyed his freedom and handles the responsibility well. I've met other children that I wouldn't trust to walk across the room (like our nephew), but this seems to work for us. It was a white hot panic when we first started leaving him alone a little bit at a time, but it's paying off. 

 
That's because you didn't leave them alone at 10! ;)

In first grade I was expected to get home alone. By second grade I was expected to let myself in the house and behave until my mother got home from work two hours later. I barely remember a time when I wasn't a latchkey kid. I would be signed up for a camp here and there, but I mostly stayed home and had chores to do and then could do whatever during the summer. 

Our kid has enjoyed his freedom and handles the responsibility well. I've met other children that I wouldn't trust to walk across the room (like our nephew), but this seems to work for us. It was a white hot panic when we first started leaving him alone a little bit at a time, but it's paying off. 
I was the same way.  1.5 miles home from school every day at age 6.  Parents got home about 5:30-6:00.  Junior, however, is a colossal dingbat, and at 9, can't remember her own freakin' home address.  We also have no landline or cell to leave home.  I have left her alone before, but that's more of a run to the store kind of thing.  

 
That's because you didn't leave them alone at 10! ;)

In first grade I was expected to get home alone. By second grade I was expected to let myself in the house and behave until my mother got home from work two hours later. I barely remember a time when I wasn't a latchkey kid. I would be signed up for a camp here and there, but I mostly stayed home and had chores to do and then could do whatever during the summer. 

Our kid has enjoyed his freedom and handles the responsibility well. I've met other children that I wouldn't trust to walk across the room (like our nephew), but this seems to work for us. It was a white hot panic when we first started leaving him alone a little bit at a time, but it's paying off. 
me too. about 10 my mom got a job outside the home, she previously had in house daycare.  my sister and i would walk home from school let our selves in and had to do homeowrk, chores, and get dinner started (when we a little older).  

 
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