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that was an interesting read, thanks for sharing!
that was an interesting read, thanks for sharing!
keep notes throughout the week and then delete the time from his timesheet on Friday? Sure its passive aggressive, but effective!Serious question here -
How does one coach his employee to stop making 30-second question / answer discussions last 30 minutes with EVERYONE? It's his personality and he can talk forever about everything steering from the original topic to another seamlessly.
Good article. This principle really stands out having worked in multiple organizations with different attitudes toward risk. Not to mention having been involved (peripherally) in a couple of fatal accidents, where outcome bias was clearly at play ("I've done this dozens of times and nothing has ever happened"). I recently watched my new host organization allow staff to be placed in a dangerous environment without the proper protective equipment, and the answer was "it's an emergency, and it's pretty unlikely anything will happen to anyone". Sure enough, nothing happened and they will be far more likely to ignore safety precautions (and objections from employees) again in the future.
Dunno...but let me know if you find out. My boss and another supervisor at work are both like this. I dread whenever either of them drop by to ask a 'simple' question. It's at least 30 minutes of my day that I'm not going to get back.Serious question here -
How does one coach his employee to stop making 30-second question / answer discussions last 30 minutes with EVERYONE? It's his personality and he can talk forever about everything steering from the original topic to another seamlessly.
Hmmmm, usually when I've had someone like that 'trap' me, be it supervisor, fellow employee, or field staff, I usually wait until a little lull and say something like, "Hey, I've got some stuff I need to get done/address/whatever, and I'm sure you're busy too (like all of us, ha ha ha). I'll talk to you later, but let me know if you need any more help with 'insert original topic item here'." It seems to work most of the time and makes the person realize how much time they've been talking.Serious question here -
How does one coach his employee to stop making 30-second question / answer discussions last 30 minutes with EVERYONE? It's his personality and he can talk forever about everything steering from the original topic to another seamlessly.
Hmmmm, usually when I've had someone like that 'trap' me, be it supervisor, fellow employee, or field staff, I usually wait until a little lull and say something like, "Hey, I've got some stuff I need to get done/address/whatever, and I'm sure you're busy too (like all of us, ha ha ha). I'll talk to you later, but let me know if you need any more help with 'insert original topic item here'." It seems to work most of the time and makes the person realize how much time they've been talking.
There are a couple of ways. End the meeting (perhaps by interrupting) with "I want to answer your questions but also want to be sensitive to everyone's time, please put your questions into an email and if appropriate I will share with the entire group." And the other suggestion I have, to end these sort of discussions is to start handing out action items to the one asking questions. Take the approach of "These are good and valuable questions Dave, I'd like you to compile your questions, research the answers on your own and present to the team next week, send your presentation to me to review when you are ready and you can present to the team at an appropriate time." Essentially start tasking "Dave" with being more solutions oriented.Serious question here -
How does one coach his employee to stop making 30-second question / answer discussions last 30 minutes with EVERYONE? It's his personality and he can talk forever about everything steering from the original topic to another seamlessly.
I too have one of those. Luckily for me we do not work at the same office. So if they ever call I just let it go to voicemail or wait for an email. In case it is something which needs a call. I always call them back at something like 3:15 or 3:45 and then say I have a meeting at 3:30 or 4:00.Serious question here -
How does one coach his employee to stop making 30-second question / answer discussions last 30 minutes with EVERYONE? It's his personality and he can talk forever about everything steering from the original topic to another seamlessly.
Office life 101 - always have your desk phone# saved in your cell phone. Only amateurs rely on cube mates to save them!We had one guy like this who would chew up everyone's time. This person wouldn't react to any normal social cues suggesting they should stop talking. So we set up a secret pact among our work group that if they heard the guy in your office they would walk by, and sneak a glance in your office. If you were waving a pencil (the secret signal) then they would go back to their office and call you, so the phone ringing would give an excuse to get away.
Office life 101 - always have your desk phone# saved in your cell phone. Only amateurs rely on cube mates to save them!
HHHHHMMMMMM. What I might do is consolidate my Fidelity account to my TSP, since I have both roth and traditional funds in that one, and then keep my Vanguard where it is after I drop the managed account. Def did not know I could transfer to the TSP. For some reason I thought it wasn't considered a '401k' and thus I couldn't do a rollover into it if it wasn't 'federal' money. Who knows, I might transfer over the Vanguard if the performance is really good. Not sure if I can compare the TSP to normal stock plans; I'll have to look into that a bit more tonight.
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