Do you really think this is true?Our society is not delusional or brought up from birth to have it in for a country or culture, as they are (once upon a time we may have been).
You think that 70 million citizens of Iran are brought up from birth to hate Western culture?
And on the flip side of your statement, you really think all Americans are no longer brought up to blindly hate others? I know of plenty of examples of parents talking openly about "towel-heads" and "darkies" in front of their kids--and that has to sink in in their impressionable minds.
And to follow your logic, when our society was delusional, as you admit it may have been, it would have been ok for someone else to "f#ck the f#cking f#ckers"--the "f#ckers" being us in that case? Do unto others, right?