bigray76
Food & Beverage Director
^^^Oh c'mon guys, this is the ask a woman engineer a question thread, not a place to talk about ****s and college football... you are supposed to ASK the women engineers about their ****s and college football...
... over who can win my wife's affection with material objects. My MIL has a lot more money than I do so I choose not to compete.
Bible belt maybe?(eg Black Belt Southern Baptist types)
Accept the Lord, or a flying side kick.Black Belt Southern Baptist types
YOU have a bigger problem that you want to admit. Why are you trying to buy your wife's affection? That doesn't speak very highly of either one of you. Do you have a business agreement or a marriage?
I agree. We've dealt with a lot of in-law issues. Many of them on my side. This thread is making me feel normal.Good thread. My SO and I have been through many of the topics covered in this thread, sounds like we're normal.
Some of her family is absolutely crazy (eg Black Belt Southern Baptist types) so dealing with them is always fun.
That was sort of taken out of context.YOU have a bigger problem that you want to admit. Why are you trying to buy your wife's affection? That doesn't speak very highly of either one of you. Do you have a business agreement or a marriage?
Are there any Jehovah's Witnesses or Mormons out there? You'd walk in the door from work and find them already sitting on your couch with a full spread of literature on your coffee table.Accept the Lord, or a flying side kick.
Your choice.
Me, too. :blink: I LOVE my husband! :wub:This thread is making me feel normal.
You're absolutely right. I jumped into that without thinking. My intent is usually to help the situation, and if my comments did harm, I'm sorry.If there is one thing I've learned from this board, it is that engineers are extremely judgmental. There have been a lot of harsh comments made by people that only know bits and pieces of a whole story.
I'll bite.Have any of the female engineers here found it useful to be a woman in the engineering field? In what ways?
Occasionally, there is consideration given to a female engineer that would not be given to a man, BUT it doesn't make up for the crap.Have any of the female engineers here found it useful to be a woman in the engineering field? In what ways?
overall I agree that female engineers get undeserved crap at timesOccasionally, there is consideration given to a female engineer that would not be given to a man, BUT it doesn't make up for the crap.
What do you mean by that?! j/koverall I agree that female engineers get undeserved crap at times
but everyone gets some bias:
there's the "kid" who looks fresh out of college who can't get respect and the greybeard who is assumed to be a has-been...even though they're both great engineers.
Us females don't get to try living out our careers as male engineers -- so I guess we'll never really know for sure how much we're treated differently (or not?).
I expect to be respected for what I know and for my talents -- and usually, I get what I expect. I also assume the best of people until I have no other choice. It's really easy to take offense when none is intended if you go looking for it.
This happens to me all the time at big work conferences. They can all remember who I am, but I struggle to keep all the middle aged white men separate. They all kinda look the sameI'll bite.
I find I'm rather memorable....I don't have to struggle to be noticed or remembered. Now and then, this is embarrassing if I can't return the favor, but all in all it's a plus.
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