hopefully you can get some decent weather and have some good time together outside with your grandparents -
I wont tell you any ICU stories but my wifes cousin skipped her wedding and eloped a few months ago to keep from having the guilt of someone becoming infected at the wedding or due to the wedding ( you wont keep old people away from a wedding) - then she got covid overseas (she is a flight attendant) her new hubs got it, then her mom got it who had come over to help paint a room in their house, then her dad got it ( he just got over colon cancer last year) now they have spread it to another cousin and hs wife and son in south georgia who stopped by to borrow something from her dad, who then have spread it to another family member...
Luckily that happened before thanksgiving because I think it helped keep the rest of the family from getting together at turkey day - also lucky the neice who got it first is now over it because she is now pregnant, and covid + pregnant is a bad mix.
I guess the road to hell is paved with good intentions because her main concern for not having the wedding was her dad, who ended up getting it anyways he still has it but appears to be getting better - about 10 days in currently.
But none of them got it at a restaurant