I'm somewhat in the same boat as you are. We've got maybe 6-7 months of cash for a "rainy day fund" but everyone I know thinks that Mrs kevo and I are crazy for doing this. The only debt we have are my school loans and our home loan.Agreed on all points. Huge pet peeve of mine. We bought a starter house that's not fancy or in a rich suburb - because we couldn't afford our dream home in our mid-20s. We got a house that we could comfortably afford. We have so many friends and relatives our age who are in debt up to their eyeballs. People with comparable income to us spent $100-150K+ more on a mortgage, often for a smaller/older house than ours (all to live in a more affluent area). I have no idea how they afford it.
Student loan debt is a huge problem. Mr. Bug worked his way through college part-time (he's on his last class now) and I used a combination of scholarships and a small federal student loan to finance my undergrad. I chose to work for a company with good educational benefits, and they paid for grad school. We are the exception among people we know, though. I have a coworker who's 28 and still lives at home with his parents, because he has $120K in student loans to pay off (he very stupidly just bought a $30K SUV because he was "bored" with his old car). Mr. Bug's sister just HAD to go to a very expensive grad school, and a few years later is upset that she can't be a stay-at-home mom, solely because of her pile of student loan debt.
We have two paid-for cars...almost everyone we know has at least one car loan, usually two. And these people aren't buying a 2 or 3 year old used car, they buy new and loaded with options. Financed for 6 or 7 years, too, and when they get tired with the car after a few years they trade in and just go more upside-down on the next loan! I don't mind one small-ish car loan at a time, but two would just suck.
We're weird in that we save up to pay in cash for home improvements, vacations, and luxury items. Everyone else uses home equity lines or credit cards (surfing the balance for lower interest rates) to pay for what they want. It's like it's a novel concept to only buy what you can afford.
Almost no one has significant savings. Mr. Bug and I are working on saving up enough to cover all expenses for 4-6 months and again, it's like we're weird. These are educated young couples and families with six-figure incomes, yet they still live paycheck to paycheck. Growing up, my parents were laid off or downsized often enough that I know to NEVER trust in job stability or security.
I'm worried about the economy. Mr. Bug and I desperately want to start our family, but daycare's expensive. Private school's expensive. Food's expensive. College savings is expensive. Kids in general are expensive. We do plan to try for a baby in the next year or so, but we've held off longer than we originally wanted to - primarily due to financial worries. We want a nice fat emergency fund in the bank and to be at a good level of savings before taking on the financial pressures of children.
Mrs kevo is going to grad school right now but she's paying for it herself with cash. The only way we can do this is if she would work during the day and take night classes. So, we're doing that.
The only crazy thing I see with the economy is housing. It takes a lot longer to sell a house in my area. A typical starter home costs $160,000 around here. As for work, my company is super busy and we are looking to hire 1 or 2 more engineers. Business doesn't seem to want to slow down. :screwloose:
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