I have finished several book on tapes over the last year... my commute does suck balls, but I get a break every few days travelling so that helps. I do think If I had to commute, work in the same office 5 days, repeat, etc., I would go nuts...
I would do what is best for long term growth and factor in a little bit of overall happiness (maybe weighted 20%) cause as dads and husbands that's about the most happiness were allowed....
Can you apply for both?