JR i'm sorry to hear about the divorce, sounds like its for the better, but they still make a train wreck of your life for a while. . .went thru one myself (my starter marriage), and it killed me at the time but was clearly for the better, all parties concerned.
B-day presents. . .. my kinda likey: Power f'n tools (love the smell of new power tools better than new cars)
A good bottle of rye or aged irish whiskey, a great night out for dinner, then better be havin a lil sumthin sumthin to cap it all off. that's usually the type of gift where both parties are mutually benefited (yessir!) :bananalama:
[Edit] oh yeah, my playground got fixed a year or so ago, can't lie its not a pleasant procedure - the worst is the shot (YEAH IN THE JUNK), and when that finally (mercifully) kicks in, its not too bad. Within a week, all system's were a-go-go.