Sometimes I think we are getting ahead, but then we have to get a new AC, or new roof, or pay deductibles because Tex Jr. broke another bone and needs surgery...Then we start over.
We don't use credit, and I put money into our retirement funds every paycheck, but I does seem pretty hard to build up as much savings as I think we need for a cushion and maintain it.
This is us too. My husband and I recently got enormous raises from promotions and changing jobs. We thought we'd be able to save up for a new car over the next few months before Baby YMZ starts preschool in the fall, but sh!t keeps happening and we lose the extra income.
On the other hand, we're contributing the max to our retirement funds and a few thousand each year to college savings for the kids, so I think we're doing okay in the big picture.