Just found out our little one has to have tonsils removed. Really don't like the idea of my kid having to get surgery at 5 years old.
You know, I totally hear you. As you may or may not be aware, my third was in NICU and had surgery at 12 days old. I'm not saying that to compare horror stories, only to relay that it doesn't matter if their 12 days old, 5 years old, or 100 years old, the idea of your little tyke or princess going under the knife is absolutely traumatizing. I wouldn't wish that on anybody, it was one of the most stressful four hours of my life and then another stressful two days making sure the recovery was going well.
Good luck ventilator, my thoughts are with little vent.