tell her.
Side note, when #3 was born, the nurses took pics of me cutting the chord. Keeping in mind that it was 0130 and I was exhausted, I had selected all of the photos I had taken of #3 and posted to Facebook for friends and family to see. About an hour later Mrs. NJ was looking through my pictures and pointed out to me that the chord cutting picture showed her "business" at which point she asked if had posted that picture. I did what any respectable husband would do in that situation. I lied, said no, not at all and then quickly removed it. I was very thankful that it occurred in the middle of the night and maybe 1 or 2 people might have saw it.
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