trying to understand why having a PE for the sake of having a PE is worth your time.
The use of a PE is state specific, in that a NY PE can only stamp plans for work to be constructed in NY. Once you get a PE in one state, you can then apply for reciprocity in other states, but you still have to meet the criteria for the new state. With that being said, getting any random PE may not be the path that works for you.
Just need a little more info as to why you want any random PE.
This guy is wrong. I've heard this "logic" written on a lot of these forums "Why would you get a PE in a state you don't work in if you're not going to stamp drawings?." It's just argumentative drivel, don't listen to it. You're not going to be in a position to stamp drawings UNTIL you have your PE. Saying you shouldn't try to get it before you're in a position to use it is like saying you shouldn't go to college until you have a job offer that requires a B.S. degree.
Furthermore, with regards to stamping drawings, the state you need to be registered in is the state where the project is located, not the state where you live or the state where you work. Does your firm, or other firms in your area do work in Connecticut? If so, being a registered PE in that state would absolutely be valuable. Even if you're not doing work in the neighboring state, your employer knows you could go to another firm that does and make more money. Therefore, he is likely to do things to try to get you to stick around.