The mommy and daddy connection was in relation to the internship not your first job, internships are ULTRA competitive (I would say worse than trying to get a meaningful scholarship) so NOT having one under your belt is pretty standard. Most kids dont get internships without some sort of connection or an ultra high GPA (slightly under a 4.0 would probably get you there).
I would say more often than not internships/work experience while in school has nothing to do with mommy/daddy or GPA. I know of plenty of people who got relevant work experience while they were in school and it had nothing to do with their GPA or parents. However, maybe my situation was slightly different as my college stressed heavily the importance of gaining work experience before graduating. Internships are out there for students, if they are willing to look and work for them. To get one you have to treat the process as though you were looking for full-time work. A lot of students don't have the drive to do that.
That said, it still doesn't help the OP. Jobs are going to be more difficult to come by right now, I don't believe that is b/c companies are plotting against perspective employees, I think it's purely a function of supply and demand rather then a corporate conspiracy. In many cases companies are not looking to hire new employees, which leaves a surplus of perspective employees out their for them to choose from when a company does want to hire. This means that company can be more choosy about the candidate they select and they can offer them less compensation then they would in a more competitive market.
In a sea of other perspective employees the only way a person is going to get hired over everyone else is to differentiate themselves from the rest of the pack. You have to stand out. How you go about that will vary from situation to situation, but you have to figure out what is going to get you noticed (in a positive way) and do that.
P.S. - ironman, perhaps you could help pavell out. If he gets his pilots license you could hire him as your pilot.