Yeah- I definitely know what you are talking about. It was very difficult to get the 4 signatures I needed for the CA exam.
lease: I worked for the VP of engineering in a company that had 50-55 employees and 3 stamps. He left the company and then I left about 1 month later due to changes.
Anyways, that former supervisor (Joe) signed for me and was very helpful and enthusiastic about me getting my license :thankyou: . I would have followed Joe to his new employer but I did not want to relocate to Las Vegas. I got two other referrals from two other engineers I knew. One was my current boss (at that time) and the third was a friendly engineer that was subcontracting work to me so he knew I did a good job. :woot:
It was that freaking 4th advocate that I could not get. :deadhorse: The city engineer said he would sign for me and then did not give me a positive recommendation. I really wish he would have said that he did not feel comfortable doing it. But, even worse than that, he said he would and then my exams got bumped out an extra 6 months because of it. That Bastard! To add insult to injury, he ended up retiring the same year so he is not even in the engineering business any more. :goat:
Typically, former employers tell you to screw off because you don't work for them anymore (at least in the consulting industry because that makes you a competitor).
My 4th was eventually a guy from our state environmental quality department. I never would have thought that he would sign for me especially after I felt like I was punched in the face :15: :BS: by others that I was just fishing at that point. Fortunately, he said sure no problem, he has seen my work and talked to me on the phone enough that he thought I would be a fine engineer. So that was my 4th.
I had one guy tell me right to my face that he felt that I was not qualified to be an engineer. This was coming from a guy that got his license when he was 25! Now the joke is on hime because I heard he was under investigation / being sued by a former client over some pretty serious issues. :17:
I really don't understand anything about this holier-than-thou attitude. If someone picked engineering as a career and they came to me, I would sign for them unless I had a specific reason not to. I think it is wrong to withhold that from someone. Let them take the exam and cheer them on if and when they make it. You would think you did something criminally wrong when people refuse to say something positive about you. Very frustrating. :210:
So, keep looking and asking and you never know where your help is coming from.