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That's the rate of military and veteran suicides. As we approach the holiday season, please keep a look out for signs of depression among your friends, veterans or not.

Wednesday marks the anniversary of one of my good friend's death, when he decided he couldn't deal with the pain any more. He was a decorated Army officer with a bronze star and a combat infantryman's badge, among other honors and accolades. Other folks I've known include a senior sergeant who I served in both Bosnia and Afghanistan with who took his life during his fourth combat tour, a sergeant (and police officer in the civilian world) who ended it all upon notification of a pending deployment to Iraq, and others who I knew of but weren't close with.

 
You're a good man Sapper.

 
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damn that is a high number.. I only have 2 or 3 close friends that were over there, 2 of them are police officers, the 3rd is AGR.. I will keep calling them when I am sitting in my 1 hour commute home afterwork from time to time..

what is a way to do more though? Other than end the thoughts of them having to go back over there?

 
A friend of mine from HS that recently retired posted this on his FB page. pretty strong read..

I remember the day I found out I got into West Point. My Mom actually showed up in the hallway of my high school and waited for me to get out of class.

She was bawling her eyes out and apologizing that she had opened up my admission letter. She wasn't crying because it had been her dream for me to go there. She was crying because she knew how hard I'd worked to get in, how much I wanted to attend and how much I wanted to be an infantry officer.

I was going to get that opportunity. That same day two of my teachers took me aside and essentially told me the following:

"David, you're a smart guy. You don't have to join the military. You should go to college, instead."

I could easily write a theme defending West Point and the military as I did that day, explaining that United States Military Academy is an elite institution, that separate from that, it is actually statistically much harder to enlist in the military than it is to get admitted to college, that serving the nation is a challenge that all able-bodied men should at least consider for a host of reasons, but I won't.

What I will say is that when a 16 year-old kid is being told that attending West Point is going to be bad for his future then there is a dangerous disconnect in America, and entirely too many Americans have no idea what kind of burdens our military is bearing.

In World War II, 11.2% of the nation's population served for four (4) years.

During the Vietnam era, 4.3% of the nation's population served in twelve (12) years.

Since 2001, only 0.45% of our population has served in the Global War on Terror.

These are unbelievable statistics. Over time, fewer and fewer people have shouldered more and more of the burden and it is only getting worse.

Our troops were sent to war in Iraq by a Congress consisting of 10% veterans with only one person having a child in the military. Taxes did not increase to pay for the war. War bonds were not sold. Gas was not regulated. In fact, the average citizen was asked to sacrifice nothing and has sacrificed nothing unless they have chosen to out of the goodness of their hearts.

The only people who have sacrificed are the veterans and their families. The volunteers. The people who swore an oath to defend this nation. You stand there, deployment after deployment and fight on. You've lost relationships, spent years of your lives in extreme conditions, years apart from kids you'll never get back, and beaten your body in a way that even professional athletes don't understand.

Then you come home to a nation that doesn't understand. They don't understand suffering. They don't understand sacrifice. They don't understand why we fight for them. They don't understand that bad people exist. They look at you like you're a machine - like something is wrong with you. You are the misguided one - not them.

When you get out, you sit in the college classrooms with political science teachers that discount your opinions on Iraq and Afghanistan because YOU WERE THERE and can't understand the macro issues they gathered from books, because of your bias.

You watch TV shows where every vet has PTSD and the violent strain at that. Your Congress is debating your benefits, your retirement, and your pay, while they ask you to do more. But, the amazing thing about you is that you all know this. You know your country will never pay back what you've given up. You know that the populace at large will never truly understand or appreciate what you have done for them.

Hell, you know that in some circles, you will be thought as less than normal for having worn the uniform. But you do it anyway.

You do what the greatest men and women of this country have done since 1775. YOU SERVED. Just that decision alone makes you part of an elite group.

"Never in the field of human conflict has so much been owed by so many to so few." -Winston Churchill- Thank you to the 11.2% and 4.3% who have served and thanks to the 0.45% who continue to serve our Nation.

General David Petraeus
West Point Class 1974

"Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference in the world.
But, the members of the U.S. ARMED FORCES don't have that problem. "

 
RG: just to set the record straight the essay is incorrectly attributed to General Petraeus. It was actually wriiten byNick Palmisciano, co-owner and co-founder of Ranger Up

Very powerful and eye-opening. I'll never understand why folks have to give someone else credit for these things they are stand-alone documents that have a message regardless of where they came from.

Read more at http://www.snopes.com/politics/soapbox/045percent.asp#LaxwMbxjFmtTDg5c.99


FWIW, The younger brother of a high school friend of mine was a major in the Marines. He was a decorated chopper pilot who flew many missions in Dessert Storm. He took his own life and left behind a wife and two small kids. His widow is very active in TAPS an organization that helps families deal with military suicides. Tragic.
 
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Thanks- I had to send that to my friend- a retired CW4, Ranger...

But the message is the same....these soldiers have sacrificed a lot and it hasn't really impacted anyone but them and their families....

 
Thanks- I had to send that to my friend- a retired CW4, Ranger...

But the message is the same....these soldiers have sacrificed a lot and it hasn't really impacted anyone but them and their families....
Absolutely.

 
The thing with the military is that you loose contact with people as you move around, and then sometimes months after a tragedy, you hear about it. We received news today of the death of another good man. Spent a few moments this morning remembering and wishing we had stayed closer. Please speak up and ask if you ever feel that a person may need help.

 
Sorry to hear it EG. Just yesterday we recieved news about an EOD guy at Fort Riley that left us on Wednesday. He left behind a wife and a 4yo daughter. Just tragic.

 
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