frazil
Master of the Boondoggle
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So I've been at my current job about 6 years and during that time I've had several running partners - people I run with at lunch time. Over the years all of them have moved on to different jobs or just moved. All of them have been young women, like me, in about the same position.
Last week I got an email from a (male) supervisor who recently started working here, asking if there is a group who runs regularly. I said no, there's a few people who run solo, but if he's looking for someone to run with I'm headed out in a few minutes and he's welcome to join me.
Then I had second thoughts...
He's not my supervisor, but in the same position. On Monday we ran together, and he's a pretty decent guy. We run at about the same pace. It's easy to say, "who cares?!", but I do not want to give people any reason to talk, you know? Is it a bad idea to run with someone in a supervisor position who happens to be a guy?? For the record, I told my husband, and he didn't think it was any big deal. Am I making a big deal out of nothing??
Last week I got an email from a (male) supervisor who recently started working here, asking if there is a group who runs regularly. I said no, there's a few people who run solo, but if he's looking for someone to run with I'm headed out in a few minutes and he's welcome to join me.
Then I had second thoughts...
He's not my supervisor, but in the same position. On Monday we ran together, and he's a pretty decent guy. We run at about the same pace. It's easy to say, "who cares?!", but I do not want to give people any reason to talk, you know? Is it a bad idea to run with someone in a supervisor position who happens to be a guy?? For the record, I told my husband, and he didn't think it was any big deal. Am I making a big deal out of nothing??