@smrob the idea of twins gives me the shivers! Someone should just hand you your PE and say "you're bearing more than 99.9% of Americans can bear, how much do you want us to pay you!" We don't have much family help either. In 6 years of having kids, we've had 5 nights away together. I love my boys, but it does make it hard to fit time in to study without adding to the load my wife is already dealing with.
The most applicable thing I've read about working parents was a tweet that went something along the lines of: "if the Dad is working full time, and the Mom is at home full time taking care of the young kids, both think Saturday is their day off and they are both wrong!"" hahaha!
